Articles by Tricia Woolfrey

I regularly write articles (a bit more substance than a blog) to help you live a more empowered life.  The subjects are varied and there are bound to be some which will make a real difference to you.  If there is something else which you would like me to write about do feel free to drop me a line at tricia@yourempoweredself.co.uk.  

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Stress and Weight Loss: The Inconvenient Truth

Stress and Weight Loss: SurreyThere are many reasons why someone may be carrying more weight than they want to.  And it’s rarely as simple as calories-in versus calories-out.

Our relationship with food is complicated.  We first associate food with comfort when we are born and nurse at our mothers’ breast.  Most of us have experienced an adult offering us a biscuit or a sweet to cheer us up.  So that link between negative feelings and using food to soothe is reinforced as we grow.  the more it happens, the more it becomes a habit.

It isn’t a decision we consciously make.  Nor is it one Continue reading

Anger Management Myths

Anger Management SurreyAre you the kind of person whose anger gets them in a spot of bother every now and again?  You wouldn’t be alone.

Or are you the kind of person who never gets angry?  Again, you wouldn’t be alone.

But if you are the kind of person who ‘never gets angry’ that is not healthy.  At all.  The reason will be revealed in the following myths around anger management.  And if your anger has consequences you had not intended, these myths may also help.

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Blue Monday: Causes and Cures

Hypnotherapy SurreyThree weeks into the New Year and we have hit what is now called Blue Monday – said to be the most depressing day of the year.

This article will share with you possible causes and what you can do about them.  

Post Christmas slump

Christmas preparations and celebrations take up so much mental and physical energy that, whether you had a good Christmas or not, it can make January feel like a big yawn stretching out before you.

Possible Cure:  Get yourself a planner and plot some things you would like to do this year to make it a really good one.  They don’t have to be big or expensive, just nice things to look forward to.

Relationship(s) under strain

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The Real Spirit of Christmas: How to have a Happy Christmas

Stress Free ChristmasThe expectation of Christmas is one of perfectly orchestrated joy, goodwill, hearty food and glorious gifts.  We try so hard to achieve perfection that it really interferes with achieving it at all.  Christmas TV ads are tugging at our heartstrings (and our purses); magazines are filled with tips on how to make the best of the festivities, Christmas songs are playing on the radio; shops are filled with gifts to delight our loved ones; and the supermarket shelves are filled with produce to grace our tables and expand our waistlines.  It seems that all that’s missing is the snow.   The pressure to spend and please are enormous.  Yes, Christmas can be stressful.

It can feel overwhelming, and for some, a lonely time.  I don’t know about you, but I think it’s time to turn the pressure off and The Real Spirit of Christmas on, especially for those who are going through a hard time.  Here are my tips:

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3 Steps to Overcome Co-Dependence

Stress Management SurreyCo-dependence can be described as the need for a person to be a certain way in order for you to be OK.  If you are more concerned with others’ needs than your own, is this selflessness or is it co-dependence?  If you find yourself regularly ‘rescuing’ others, not only is this an indicator for co-dependence but it also means you are denying them the gift of growth.  Any painful experience is an invitation to learn and grow from it.  We can’t if we are being rescued.  So, painful as it may be to hear, before you know it,  you could become part of the problem, rather than part of the solution, even if it doesn’t feel that way.  So, here are three steps to help you overcome it: Continue reading

Stress – Is Your Body Paying the Price?

Stress Management SurreyI was reading an article about The Crown star Claire Foy for whom the stress of filming, motherhood, and the breakdown of her marriage left her with exhaustion and infection, necessitating six weeks off work.

If you are someone who pushes yourself through stressors, or find that too many things are happening at once, the stress can come out in physical symptoms such as fatigue, migraines, IBS, or a lowered immune system, amongst other things.  

The problem is that when self-care is so far down your list of priorities, you put yourself at risk of burnout (in Claire’s case) or breakdown.  It’s just too big a burden for the body to carry.

As Claire said “You can keep yourself going for a long time, and that’s what I have pretty much been doing since I gave birth.  My body has paid the price.” Continue reading

Is your Life Like a Runaway Train?

Life goals - on trackAre you the kind of person who allows life to unfold?  Or the kind who likes to plan your route?

There are pros and cons to both.  With the former (allowing life to unfold), you can enjoy the scenery, and any surprises on the way.  Some of the surprises will be good ones, others less so.  But you may end up somewhere you didn’t want to be.   And you may also find that you experience more problems that you had expected.  More an unravelling than an unfolding.    Continue reading

Anger Management – The Truth

Anger ManagementAnger management is often considered suitable only for those who have a habit of exploding.  Not so.  It helps everyone with their anger, including those who don’t recognise or acknowledge this emotion in themselves or express it to others.    Anger is one of those emotions that is misunderstood and, for many, it is considered as inappropriate or even bad.

However, it is both natural and healthy to feel anger.  It is just when it not expressed appropriately, or not expressed at all that it can cause problems.

When a client says to me that they never get angry, it is a concern as it is often a sign of suppression, usually subconscious.  The person often has physical symptoms that don’t clear up by usual means.  Symptoms such as insomnia, migraines, aches and pains, eczema, etc.

Like all of our emotions, anger has a purpose:  to signal that something needs your Continue reading

What’s the Point in Having a Mind?

Open Mind

I was listening to the radio last week when I heard the presenter (Chris Evans) say “What’s the point in having a mind if you can’t change it?” 

Of course, my ears pricked up at that and it got me thinking:  if you have a point of view, is it a good thing or a bad thing to stick to it?

After much mulling, I decided that it was both good and bad, and here is how:

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Discomfort Could Be a Sign of a Breakthrough

Discomfort Can Be a Sign of BreakthroughIt’s fair to say that there aren’t many people who like to feel discomfort.  Given the choice, we will opt for feelings of ease and comfort every time.  And why not?
 
However, never allowing yourself to feel uncomfortable can be a sign that you are becoming “comfort-zone restricted”.  Comfort is the path of least resistance but it is also the path of least growth.
 
If there’s a breakthrough you are seeking in your life, it’s important to cultivate the ability to tolerate the discomfort associated with change.  Think about those daisies which pop up through the cracks in the concrete – there was determination to push through, even if it didn’t feel good at the time.  But the rewards are there.  You get to flourish and grow.  As you were meant to do. Continue reading

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